How I Got Into – Out of – and Into Again – The Simple Living Movement

November 8, 2010 · 41 comments

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As you can imagine, I think a lot about simplicity. What it means, what it includes, and how to live and teach others to embrace it. One of the major components of simplicity is finding passion and joy in what you do every day, and since most of us work many hours of our lives, it’s crucial to find simplicity in your work, if you can.

This is a post about my path of finding simplicity again, and how it’s brought me far more joy than any traditional path has ever brought. I feel like it’s time to fully let go, and take risks.

After graduating high school and moving straight on to college, I followed the traditional path – finish in four years, study abroad, get good grades, and stay active on campus through volunteering and running clubs.

But as senior year came to a close, I knew I wanted to do something different. Sure, I could land a job in a big city and make money right away, but I yearned to do something meaningful…so I spent the first year out of college as an AmeriCorps member, making $10,000 a year. It was one of the best years of my life – I felt fulfilled with my work, I loved my colleagues, and fell in love with Vermont. The money didn’t matter.

When my year of service ended, I explored other, safer paths, and landed one, working at a non-profit organization in a job with health insurance. Following the typical, but not necessarily what I wanted.

I was unfulfilled, so I quit and left. And spent a lot of time thinking about what made me feel satisfied in my work.

I bought a copy of the Backdoor Guide to Short-Term Job Adventures, which was loaded with all kinds of unusual experiences and adventures, from teaching abroad to interning with arts organizations to organic farming. It was my bible, in a way, for the next two years, when I spent time doing things like:

  • Volunteering for a month at Kripalu, a yoga center in the Berkshires. I learned how to do yoga, got free room and board, cleaned a lot of toilets, made fun friends, and ate delicious organic, vegetarian food.
  • Traveling for a few weeks in southern and northern California to visit several good friends.
  • Interning at an organic, biodynamic farm for a semester, learning how to teach children to value where there food comes from.
  • Working at a family-owned jewelry store for the holidays while living with my parents to save up money to travel.
  • Traveling to India and Nepal with a good friend, then staying on in India for an extra month to volunteer.
  • Teaching environmental and outdoor education at seasonal centers and camps, where I’d get free room and board plus a weekly stipend to do what I love.

And then I settled into the Berkshires. I got involved in a relationship, and wanted to stay nearby.

So what did I do? I followed societal norms, and lost track of my dreams and passions. I spent the next several years working in public education while getting an education master’s degree. I sort of fell into it. It was safe – it brought health insurance, job security, and people around me were satisfied. I was doing something others thought I was good at. But it wasn’t me. I didn’t feel settled with this path.

Then it all changed…last year, I was a classroom teacher in a subject I was not certified in to teach. At the end of the year, my one-year teaching waiver was up, and I was out of a job.

It was a blessing. I spent the summer waiting tables part-time, saving money just in case.

I still don’t have a job. As I look for something to pay the bills, I’m doing things that I love, and rediscovering my passions again:

  • I’ve gotten back into a regular yoga practice. (Which I had abandoned for a few years.)
  • I go for a walk nearly every day.
  • I write for at least two hours every weekday, on blog posts and an eBook that’s in the works.
  • I read every day, something I barely did for pleasure in grad school and while teaching. I’m on my way to have read one book a week this year.

And I’m thinking back to the most positive work, internship, and volunteer experiences from my life, to make decisions for my future. I’m feeling more relaxed, more healthy, and more at peace than I have for a long time.

I don’t want to get rich. I don’t worry too much about having a job that provides health insurance (partly because I live in MA). I want to be able to afford my basic needs plus a few luxuries, like travel, yoga classes, and organic food.

In all honesty, I’d much rather spend this winter working at a ski resort to get better at skiing and to continue putting energy into my writing and passions, than go back to a typical 9-5 job. For now anyway. Every day is a new day, bringing new thoughts, dreams, and ideas.

What path are you on now, and what are your dreams?

Thank you to all of the bloggers out there who inspired me to break out and be free and honest by writing this post: Tammy, Seth, Tyler, Nina, Everett, Gwen, Elise, Dusti, and Elizabeth.

 

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Manu November 8, 2010

Hi Lisa,

I really like your post. I am more and more getting into the simple living / minimalist movement, and it scares me as much as it excites me.

Hope you can continue to live as you intend, this is the main thing!

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lisasfoods November 8, 2010

Thanks Manu, and thanks for stopping by. I know what you mean – it is a really exciting movement, and it's fun to be on board with it all. I keep wondering what new ideas and steps people will take to get back to basics.

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Elizabeth November 8, 2010

Wonderful post Lisa! You are so inspiring. I love your journey down the road less traveled.

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lisasfoods November 9, 2010

Thanks! You're really inspiring too with your beautiful patterns and hard work towards knitting design. Love that as a quote: "the road less traveled."

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Anne @ Food Loving P November 9, 2010

Lovely, lovely post!

I think I'm on the right path.. it'll take time to accomplish my dreams and goals but I also think that they will change along the way whch makes the path ever more exciting!

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lisasfoods November 9, 2010

Thanks Anne! I'd been thinking about all of these things for so long, and it feels really good to have written it all down in one place. Lots of dreams and goals take time, but choosing the steps to get there are so important.

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whitney November 9, 2010

I love this post, Lisa. So much. You're brave for not only sharing but taking a risk and trusting yourself. I'm really trying to use the butterflies in my stomach as a compass, and it's inspiring to hear about other people doing the same :)

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lisasfoods November 9, 2010

Thanks Whitney. I just wrote a long comment on your blog about it, but I want to say that it's all about following those butterflies in your gut. It's all about surrendering to what you need to do. It feels scary to be so exposed, but it's also a huge relief.

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Teresa November 9, 2010

Lisa, you are so right. I am a friend of Whit's who found my way over to this post through her blog. As I have discussed with Whitney, I have just cone through a two year journey of questioning and exploring how to live my life to be the authentic, fulfilled person I want to be. I spent a lot of time NOT listening to the signals that my life choices were taking me away from myself, until my body staged a little rebellion and I had to force myself to slow down and examine where I was and where I wanted to be.

Following that internal compass, trusting that you have found true north, is the hardest thing we can learn to do, but also the most important.

Thank you for having the courage to share your experiences. I wish you a future of happy travels on your true path.

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lisasfoods November 10, 2010

Thanks for your comment, Teresa, and for checking out my post.

Isn't it funny how our bodies truly know what's right and wrong, even when our minds don't listen to the signals? I can think back to so many periods of time in my life when I suffered from tension headaches and migraines, all from stress. (Must be, because I have only had one or two headaches since I finished teaching in June, and they only seem to occur when I go on interviews.)

Glad to hear that you're following your path too, and wishing you lots of joy and passion-finding along the way.

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Carrie (Love Healthy November 9, 2010

Hi Lisa, I really loved reading your story and it confirms my suspicions that we are soul sistas. :) I feel like I am also leading an unconventional life and following my dreams, no matter what others think about it. I think the bottom line is that people should figure out their own passions in life and find ways to develop them. Life is simply too short not to devour each moment!

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lisasfoods November 9, 2010

Yay! One day we'll get to meet and confirm this suspicion. :)

You're right – life is too short. I kept fearing that ten years would go by and I'd be in the same place…professionally, anyway. And by accepting my true feelings I feel like I've opened the door to so many other joys and passions in my life. Thank you for your sweet comment.

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Sofia November 9, 2010

Love this post. I am totally interested in people's career/ life paths, and I think it's great you discovered and were able to admit that the steady job thing with benefits wasn't right for you. It seems you've taken risks but ultimately not sacrificed your dreams to get what you want that will, even if you change careers a few times, lead to happiness.

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lisasfoods November 10, 2010

Thanks so much Sofia. I love to hear about people's career and life paths too, especially when they're off the beaten track. And you're right – the generation before barely changed careers, and for us, it's normal to do so many times. It makes me wonder what it will be like for college graduates twenty years from now, and whether the world will be really different.

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Monet November 9, 2010

Wow, Lisa. Thank you so much for sharing. I loved following you on your journey. I can relate to so many aspects of your story. Even though the future is uncertain…you are doing the things that bring joy and simplicity in your life, which is beautiful. I admire you and your courage to listen to your heart. And speaking of your e-book, I would be HONORED to be a part of it. Feel free to send me more information about when you want something done!

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lisasfoods November 10, 2010

Thanks Monet. It's funny how okay I feel right now with the uncertainty, since I feel like the future holds many good things. I also feel really lucky, because I have so many supportive people around me at this time of questioning.

As for the ebook, yay, and thank you! I'll get in touch in the next week or two with more information, and about a due date. I love your baking and would love to have you share something.

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Katie November 10, 2010

I loved reading this, Lisa! Thanks so much for sharing about your interesting career path… I love hearing about the paths people take, especially when they're a little "different" from the norm, like mine!

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Evan @swEEts November 10, 2010

I feel inspired and disappointed in my self at the same time while reading this.. I love what you've done, the experiences it sounds like you've gained through the different paths you've chosen and the courage you've had to quit things that are typically considered the "norm." I did the same things as you in college, but went straight in to grad school looking for that career that would offer me the type of security and now feel like i still need more. One day I'm going to give it up too and begin my dream of opening a bakery and you just inspired me a little more to get on that path :)

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lisasfoods November 10, 2010

I had a long talk with a friend of mine about this today. I think it's sometimes about taking the small steps to get to your lifelong dream. So if now's a good time to save money towards opening a bakery, or learning some skills about owning a business or supervising staff, or any other skill that will help in the long run, then it's okay. Another friend of mine is choosing a not so great job, but is putting extra energy into owning her own business. Just keep that long-term goal in sight. Thanks for your comment.

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moonwalkthemiles November 11, 2010

Just checked in to your blog, and I'm so happy I did! I love this post–the overall message, and your honesty in writring it. I'd say that right now, in this moment, I'm on a path that I never, ever could have dreamed up for myself and it is as such wonderful :) But I do have a lot of fears for when I return to the United States. It's very likely I'll be entering some sort of graduate program, which in today's economy carries with it a whole ton of fears and concerns.

That said, my journey to Taiwan taught me that the unexpected–and good– usually happens if you put OUT good effort. So really I can only continue to do that here, right now, and hope for the best when I go back home.

Anyway thanks for a very thoughtful post! If your having a 9-5 job meant no/limited blogging, then I too am glad you don't have one :)

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lisasfoods November 11, 2010

Thanks! Yeah, I feel like my blog writing has increased and improved, and I have a lot of time to work on it, since I've been out of work.

I think it's wonderful that you're in Taiwan, experiencing such a different culture and having so many adventures that most Americans would never dream of. The state of the economy is definitely causing for more uncertainty, and I've seen more people stay in jobs they don't like because they fear leaving them. Grad school is always a good option – to get more education, and to have more options down the road. Glad you stopped by. :)

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Samantha Angela @ Bi November 11, 2010

I'm so impressed by your willingness to live simply and do what you love. It can be tough when a good paying job with benefits is on the table.
Right now I'm not 100% happy in my professional life but it's what I need right now. I have goals for the future I just need the courage to fulfill them.

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lisasfoods November 11, 2010

You can do it! It's really scary to break through fears about future hopes and goals, but take the jump, and take a risk. It's worth it. While certainly any risk can lead to failure and disapproval (which is why it took me so long to break away from what I was doing), life is so short. Much luck and best wishes.

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Kimberly Beauchamp, November 12, 2010

Hi Lisa,
What a small world–I just picked my daughter up today from her 1-week, 3rd grade farm trip to Hawthorne Valley. Absolutely life changing. She seems so much more mature and I am so grateful that she's had this experience. Thanks for sharing yours:)
Kim

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lisasfoods November 12, 2010

Hi Kim. Thanks for stopping by. And that is quite a coincidence – isn't Hawthorne Valley just a magical place? I feel like it influenced me positively in many ways too. That's wonderful that your daughter got to experience time there.

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Quay Po Cooks November 13, 2010

Lisa,
I admire that you dare to take the risk and chase after your dream and that is the right way to live life!

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lisasfoods November 13, 2010

Thank you! I agree – life is too short to avoid taking risks and trying new paths.

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Kerry November 13, 2010

Loved this post. You are a smart girl and know what you want……keep your head high and move forward…….excited to see where this universe takes you.

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lisasfoods November 13, 2010

Thanks Kerry. I'm excited too – I feel like there are so many great things on the horizon of my life, and want to embrace all of the things I love to do. It's very freeing.

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PBCookie November 19, 2010

Wow. This is very inspiring. I read your other post about bread, and I myself have my own bread recipe. Lol. I don't have a bread machine, so I had to do it the hard way and bake it in a loaf pan which literally took hours.

Anyway, I recently lost my job as well. I've been active in my search everyday, but a huge part of me is very sorrowful in returning to work. (as crazy as that sounds) I am currently a business major and am already thinking that working a 9-5 is not for me and I'd like to pursue other interests. I really want to open an e-store, but I've put that on hold just considering the time investment both now and in the future it would require. I've thought about being a teacher as well. I agree that life is very stressful, and I too have been looking for ways to get back to the basics. At the same time, I have a small child I have to care for and no significant other. I still have bills to pay, but I yearn for a balance. You always here about the good ole days. They were good indeed. In the good old days an ambitious hardworking man or woman could set up some small local shop and earn a living – not to get rich – just to live. Nowadays those mom and pops are being squashed by big corporations and our nations trend of going from one plateau away from normality to another. :-(

However, your post has inspired me that it is possible and I'm not the only deviant out there. I wish you best on your venture. Hopefully, we'll meet up at the same place one day.

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Anna November 21, 2010

Wow. This is awesome. I found your blog through your Lilveggiepatch guest post (love that Katie!) and so much of what you say and live rings true with me. I'll definitely be reading more!

I'm a fan of simple living myself. Your more recent post asking for reader simplicity stories has got me thinking about my own…

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Katherina @ Zephyr Runs July 5, 2011

Holla AmeriCorps alum! Also a simple living/loving girl. So glad I foun

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Lisa Fine July 6, 2011

Welcome! So glad you found my blog too, and I love hearing about others who have done AmeriCorps. :)

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Jen February 5, 2012

Hey Lisa! I stumbled upon this older post of yours and just wanted to say again what an inspiration you are. Your path is truly worth admiring!

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Lisa Fine February 7, 2012

Aw, thanks, Jen! You’re so sweet. It’s always fun for me to read old posts, and remember where my roots are.

Hope school is going well.

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